Mmmkay, so it was totally immature of me to say what I said on Sunday and whatnot, but really give me a chance to speak again. We seem to have an issue of that.

Okay, it was fucking wrong of me to make judgements, but really, if you have a problem with me, you tell me. And you do it like an adult. On the other hand, this is my space, one in which you don’t have to come to if you don’t like what you see, you can get the Hell out. I will however, be adult enough to apologize. I was being immature, but you have to understand that I don’t get boyfriend-girlfriend issues. It’s my tragic flaw since I tend to be so accepting of everything that comes my way (I have definitely had girls call my boyfriend hot, and although it hurts a little, I am kind of okay with it) and I totally miss the point sometimes. If something is bothersome, once again you have to pick your battles with me. You get easily offended; I get easily offended. It doesn’t take a lot.

And I would also like to note that I was not just talking about one specific person or case on Sunday’s blog. A ton of nasty epithets were thrown at me this weekend on similar subjects from all different direction. I was talking in general and using several cases to make a point. Sorry if I didn’t get that across, but I’m an artist not a lawyer. Once again, if you have a problem, maybe talking should be done before things are said that do get posted. I now have new rules for comment posting because I got at least five comments from different people saying that I was wrong and that I am a terrible friend and whatnot:

1) Realize that the comment forum is a public space. People might be just as mad as you for saying something as they are at me for saying something. It’s just like a blog. Not pointing to any comment in specific (because that would be cruel and because I do not have any specific case I would like to reference) but making personal attacks can turn people against you as quickly as it can turn people against me. Hence why all comments are now moderated before posted since I have had people mad at people they don’t even know (and sometimes I don’t even know!) faster than anything.

2) I am a huge supporter of First Amendment rights but really: think before you speak. I know I don’t do that and that makes me a hypocrite, but do you really want to go to the trouble I go through each time I say something stupid and am forced to explain and/or recant my statements? I think not. If you do, happy writing!

3) I am not here to start any wars of any sort or (even worse) to start comment wars. Several of those took place. I shall not allow my website to be a place where people lambaste others via comments. It’s not fair to anyone and it defeats the purpose of me starting this blog.

Any more questions?